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Reflections on 40 years as a doctor in Women's Health

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  • Are thoughts the shadows of our feelings?

    Ever wonder why things often seem so much more alive, when you travel to new places? Why the colours are more vibrant, the details so memorable? Is Auckland really more beautiful than Vancouver, or is it simply, well, different? Is it just something about being there, not here -being away, in other words? There seems…

    gozzter

    August 23, 2023
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    emotions, feelings, Gay community, novelty, prostitution, transsexual, West End of Vancouver
  • The I’s have it… don’t they?

    Sometimes the Past is instructive; sometimes it is embarrassing. I mean, are we meant to learn from the past, or to learn when we’re actually in it, wallowing through its turbid eddies, lost in its sudden shadows? You’d think I would have figured it out by now, wandering as I am through my own autumn…

    gozzter

    August 16, 2023
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    Age, diary entries, Future, identity, liminality, Past, Present, temporality, the liminal I, thresholds, traveller
  • Every offence is not a hate at first

    What do you do with a gift from someone you once respected, a gift that seemed freely given at the time, but which turned out to be a mere façade? What do you do with a love turned sour? A love turned selfish? All love is selfish, you say, but it is your experience speaking…

    gozzter

    August 9, 2023
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    agency, art, artists, dreams, gifts, love, meaning, poetry
  • I have a kind of alacrity in sinking

    ‘I would challenge you to a battle of wits, but I see you are unarmed.’ I have always loved that quote. There was a time when I was fond of saying it; I softened its blow by explaining that it was actually an example of clever Shakespearean sarcasm. Unfortunately, I was once challenged by a…

    gozzter

    August 2, 2023
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    Covid, lying, Penny Pexman, public transit, sarcasm, social distancing, the Conversation.com, University of Calgary
  • What really happened?

    Tell me, what are you supposed to do when there’s more than one version of the same event: when you have multiple choices? Tell me what you are supposed to think when there are  a variety of remembered histories, each claiming its own validity, its own proof. If it was a tale of conquest, a…

    gozzter

    July 26, 2023
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    alternate truths, Aztecs, history, Plato, revisionist history, Thermopylae, Weltanschauung of an era.
  • Quiet needs by sun and candle-light

    I have to admit I’m puzzled. Does anybody really understand emotions? Some of them seem untetherable, others simply unpredictable, arising as they do from the fog of Life. And yet, as separate as states such as hate, anger, love, sadness and joy claim to be, they do share features such as spontaneity and lack of…

    gozzter

    July 19, 2023
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    agency, Alexandra Gustafson, biobehavioral synchrony, complexity, Dr. Anna Machin, E.J. Pratt, Elizabeth Barrett Browning, emotions, love, Oxford University
  • Will this look of thine hurl my soul from heaven?

    ‘The ceremony of innocence is drowned’, wrote Yeats in his magnificent poem The Second Coming. That’s how I feel sometimes, when I think about the things I was taught and came to accept. Came to expect, because what we see is so often laden with expectations. We accept what our culture paints, so we are…

    gozzter

    July 12, 2023
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    Age, ancient Romans, Black Lives Matter movement, Canada's First Nations, culture, democracy, eras, evidence, expectations, history, race, skin colour, The Second Coming, William Butler Yeats, Winnipeg
  • The art of finding the mind’s construction in the face

    During Covid, I found that I sometimes had the most interesting conversations when I didn’t mean to. Most people hear, but fewer listen unless you make eye contact with them; this was often difficult when I was standing in those little socially distanced footsteps painted on the floor of the grocery store checkout lines and…

    gozzter

    July 5, 2023
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    backs, conversations, Douglas Harding, faces, masks, meditation, Mind, On Having No Head, pandemic, philosophy, social distancing, things, true nature, Zen
  • Shame, shame, shame!

    “You should be ashamed of yourself, G!” That was what Geoffrey said to me with a twinkle in his eye. We were having coffee in the Food Court at the mall that morning, and I had grabbed more packages of sweetener than I needed. Well, I do actually need them at home, but I suppose…

    gozzter

    June 28, 2023
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    agency, empathy, objectivization, oppression, Sandra Lee Bartky, shaming
  • I hold the world but as the world

    I suppose very few things resist change; we filter most things through the eyes of our culture after all. But I, an admitted closet-pareidoliac[i], am still amazed at the variety of pattern-reading throughout the ages. What is it that changes the look of a painting, say -its feeling? How is it that the same person…

    gozzter

    June 21, 2023
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    androgyny, BBC Culture, culture, Gay culture, Gender, Oscar Wilde, the Blue Boy, Thomas Gainsborough, University of Montana, Valerie Hedquist
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